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What Representing Men in Divorce Taught Me About Fatherhood

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Attorney Marilyn York owns a Men’s Rights Family Law Firm in Reno Nevada, established in 2001.

She and her ten female employees focus on representing men for two reasons:

1. As her talk explains, fathers are crucial in the upbringing and development of their children; and

2. Fathers are the disadvantaged parent in family court and society and while the laws are improving, the statistics are not.

There are currently more than 17,000,000 children growing up in America without their fathers and every year this number is growing. According to the Center for Disease Control, children from fatherless homes account for 90% of homeless and runaway children; 71% of high school dropouts and 63% of youth suicides. Listen to this talk to find out how you can help America’s 17,000,000 fatherless children avoid these fates!

Marilyn D. York is a Men’s Rights Divorce Attorney, licensed in California since 1998 and Nevada since 1999, where she is a Certified Family Law Specialist. Since 2001, Marilyn has owned her law firm in Reno, Nevada, where she and her 9 female employees specifically represent men in divorce and family law battles. Marilyn chose her career because of her passion for children and relationships but most of all, Marilyn is driven to help underdogs. While the laws are improving for men, not all laws are yet gender equal and the interpretation and enforcement of those that are, have a long way to go.

Despite her focus on representing men, Marilyn has a deep compassion for women in need as well. It isn’t lost on Marilyn that women remain disadvantaged outside Family Court. She serves that need as Board President for a local housing program for homeless young women, Nevada Youth Empowerment Project, or NYEP.

Fathers should maintain a healthy and supportive relationship with their children during and after divorce by communicating openly and honestly, actively co-parenting, and prioritizing the well-being of their children.

Divorce is a challenging journey, and it’s often messy, stressful and full of uncertainties. This complex legal process can be especially daunting for men, who are often left feeling lost and helpless, with little understanding of their legal rights and obligations.

As a divorce lawyer, representing men in divorce proceedings has taught me a great deal about fatherhood. Through various divorce cases, I have seen firsthand the implications of divorce on men, and how it can affect both their role as fathers and their personal lives.

One of the biggest misconceptions men have about divorce is that they have no say in child custody proceedings. While this may have been the case a few decades ago, the legal system has evolved to recognize the crucial role of fathers in their children’s lives. This means that fathers can now actively participate in determining the best interest of their children and advocating for their custody rights.

As a father myself, I know firsthand the importance of being present and involved in my children’s lives. So, representing fathers in custody battles has been one of the most challenging but rewarding aspects of my job.

Furthermore, I have come across several cases where fathers are simply not present in their children’s lives despite having legal custody rights. This, in turn, can lead to emotional and psychological damages for both the father and child involved. It is, therefore, my belief that fathers should strive to maintain a healthy, supportive relationship with their children, regardless of their relationship status with the mother.

Another common issue I’ve noticed during some divorce proceedings is that men often struggle with depression and anxiety. This could be due to the emotional toll of the divorce process, financial woes or parenting challenges. As a result, it’s critical to seek out mental health support to cope with these challenges and avoid the long-term negative effects of these issues.

Finally, I’ve learned that every case is unique, and there is no one-size-fits-all solution when it comes to divorce proceedings. As a divorce lawyer, it’s imperative to listen to the individual concerns and needs of clients and guide them accordingly.

In conclusion, through representing men in divorce proceedings, I’ve learned that fatherhood goes beyond legal rights and responsibilities. It’s about actively participating in your children’s lives, maintaining a healthy relationship with them, seeking support when needed and understanding that each situation is unique. By doing so, fathers can make a significant impact on their children’s lives even amidst the most challenging of circumstances.